Traditionally, a bride's family assumes the larger share of the wedding and reception expenses.
However, with the advent of Gay Marriages, Civil-Unions, and Civil and Domestic Partnerships,
both partners, and/or their families, share in the expenses.


A Bride


Pays for: Fiancées wedding ring
Fiancées wedding gift
personal stationery




A Bride's Family


Pay for: Invitations
Wedding gift for the couple
Bride´s gown and accessories
Their own attire
Bride´s trousseau
Bridesmaid´s luncheon
Lodging for out of town bridesmaids*
Rental of sanctuary or other wedding site
Fees for the organist, soloist or musicians
Flowers for the church
Bridesmaid´s bouquets
Reception expenses (including the rental fee, catering, wedding cake, bar, music, flowers, decorations,gratuities)
Engagement and Wedding portraits
Wedding and reception photography
Transportation for the bridal party on the wedding day



Bridesmaids

Pay for: their own gowns
and accessories (Many brides provide the accessories)
Their own travel expenses
Wedding gift for the couple
Lodging (If the bride´s family does not provide accommodations)*



A Groom


Pays for: Bride's engagement and wedding rings
Bride's wedding gift
Gifts for the best man and groomsmen
His own attire
Marriage license
Clergy or Judge's fee
Bride's bouquet and going away flowers
Flowers for the mothers and Grandmothers
Boutonnières for all the men in the wedding party
Groomsman's gloves, ties and ascots (If not part of the rental)  
The honeymoon.  



A Groom's Family

Pay for their own wedding attire
Their own travel and lodging  
Lodging for out of town groomsmen)*
Wedding gift for the couple
Rehearsal dinner




Best Man-Groomsmen

Pay for their own wedding attire
(The groom may elect to pay for the accessories)
Their own travel expenses
Wedding gift for the couple
Lodging (Unless arranged by the groom´s family) *
Bachelor party


* Providing lodging for your attendants is a wonderful gesture if you can afford it,
but it is not required)
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