Civillywedd.com was created in loving memory of John Andrew Baker
from Halifax, Massachusetts, 1936 -1992,
My friend, Life-Mate, Harvard-Grad  and Teacher extrordinair who inspired me to carry on...

See picture below

We were joined together in a ceremony in John's home in Silverlake, Los Angeles, California on December 31, 1982
I recall John saying,
" It's a shame that this wedding is not legal",

I said, "I guess I'll have to do something about that someday".

John died of Aids in 1992

John's family took everything that we owned.


I took it upon myself to contact the C.E.O.'s of the then "Top Ten Fortune 500 Companies" in year 2000 requesting
their participation in Civillywedd.com.

I am doing my part as promised my former partner, John would be pleased to know that Gay Marriage is now legal in
Massachusetts, his birth State, as well as California (On Hold), where we resided, in addition to, Connecticut
and soon to be recognized in New York, my birth State.  

Join in the progress and make Equal Marriage Rights the perfect synergy of humankind.


Remembering all who lived and loved
11 September
11 March
About Me

Chief Seattle
"When the Earth is sick, the animals will begin to
disappear, when that happens, The Warriors of the
Rainbow will come to save them."